Why Use a Cock Ring + Our Faves

 In 10+ years of selling sex toys, cock or penis rings are among the most popular picks. Folx of all genders, sexualities, and relationship structures love this versatile toy! Here’s more about why use a cock ring, how to put one on, and what you need to know to choose the best penis ring for you.

Why use a cock ring?

Penis rings are the original hands-free couples’ vibrator. In addition to adding fun, newness, and variety, they also offer many benefits to the user and their partner, alike.

Here are 7 reasons why people use a cock ring.

  1. They help people with penises stay harder longer. This makes it easier and more likely that both partners experience orgasm, perhaps even simultaneous orgasm.
  2. They can help secure the condom. Click here to check out our top picks for the best condoms.
  3. Vibrating cock rings give extra stimulation to the clitoris or the scrotum—depending on the position of the ring—that can enhance your pleasure and orgasm!
  4. They can cause the cock to plump, adding some girth.
  5. They feel good!
  6. They can turn dildos (non-vibrating insertable toys) into vibrators.
  7. They take blow jobs to a whole new level.

Vibrating cock rings also are easy to use as a clitoral or other external toy. Just hook your fingers through the loop and press the vibrating part anywhere you want extra stimulation.

Read more: Our Favourite External Vibrators

How to put on a penis ring

Now that you understand why use a cock ring, let’s talk about HOW to use it.

First of all, make sure the penis, dildo, or fingers have water-based lube on them—you do not want the toy to catch on any skin or hair! If you don’t already have a favorite lube or are looking for something new, we recommend this aloe-based one. It’s made with organic, body-safe ingredients, lasts WAY longer than most water-based lubes, and doesn’t get sticky or have a weird taste or smell.

Then, stretch the ring open and slide it to the base of the penis. Some rings are designed to go around the balls as well. Check the information included in yours. Either way, do not let the ring snap (unless that’s something you and your beau(s) agreed on), but gently let it close.

If the penis ring has a vibrator, decide which direction you want to point that part. As a general rule, pointing the vibrator up (towards the wearer’s head) stimulates the other person while pointing it down (towards the wearer’s feet) stimulates the wearer. Of course this can change depending on the sex position, genitals of the wearer, and whether it’s being used on a toy or a person.

Then, enjoy yourselves! Keep in mind that you may have to adjust the ring a few times, depending on the fit and how vigorous your sexy times are.

How to choose a penis ring

Start by thinking about the benefits you want from the penis ring. In other words: why are you using it?

From there, look for ones made of body-safe materials like silicone, ABS hard plastic, and wood. Silicone has more give to it, meaning it’ll better accommodate penises of varying girth. Rings made of hard plastic, wood, and steel make for a more intense experience.

FOR PREMATURE EJACULATION

Consider a non-vibrating option. These come in various sizes and shapes.

An adjustable penis ring like this (pictured left) adapts to different girths. This is also a great option if you’re new to using c-rings or have multiple partners with penises. You can experiment with how tight you want the ring to be.

Alternatively, you can go with a set of different diameter rings. This gives you more ways to play! Vary up how you use the rings (over just the penis or the penis and scrotum) and how intense it is for the wearer.

If you want just one designed for both the penis and scrotum, check out this one from Oxballs.

FOR HEIGHTENED SENSATION DURING PENETRATIVE SEX

Go with a vibrating penis ring. It’ll also double as an external vibrator and make experiencing orgasm during intercourse easier.

The Mio (pictured right) is a fan favourite. It has deep, rumbly vibrations and a very stretchy band. For reference, Kait can fit it on her average-sized wrist.

If the wearer is on the narrower side, try the Pivot ring instead. Its band is made of a firmer silicone than the Mio, giving it a tighter fit but the same deep, rumbly vibrations.

FOR A PERINEUM MASSAGE

Made to go around both the penis and scrotum, Verge has a unique shape that directly stimulate the perineum of the wearer.

Try it during anal sex or masturbation to experience new peaks of pleasure.

Regardless of why you decide to use a cock ring, we always recommend reading reviews for c-rings. This is extra important if the person wearing them is girthier or narrower than average. We stand by the above recs as they tend to be versatile, stretchy, and long-lasting—and we haven’t heard of one breaking or snapping.

Why use a cock ring? As one part of an intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex life

Penis rings might not solve underlying sexual problems but they can help a ride range of sex issues. Regardless of why you use a cock ring, they add a new dimension of your sexy times.

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