Are you having enough sex?

There’s one thing every one of my clients and every potential client has in common: they think they aren’t having enough sex. Sometimes they tell me they’re having sex several times each week. Other times, that number drops to a …

How to Experience Simultaneous Orgasm

What is a simultaneous orgasm

At its most basic, a simultaneous orgasm is when you and your partner experience orgasm at the same time. In common use, it refers to this happening during penis-in-vagina intercourse (PIV).

Why is it such

#AskKait: Is sexual orientation fluid?

Mary asks:

Is it normal to enjoy hetero sex even if you feel like you might be more attracted to women?

Hey Mary!

I am so glad you asked this question! I hear this conflation of sexual behaviors and sexual …

The Only 3 Things You Need for Mind Blowing Sex

When it comes to having better sex, most of the advice tells you to add new, sexy, fun things to your routine. Variety indeed keeps things exciting, and also it’s not long before your routine expands to include that something …

WTF is “real” sex anyway?

Close your eyes for a moment, and think back to one of your favorite, most pleasurable sexy times/sex experiences. When and where was it? What else was going on in your life? How were you feeling, physically and emotionally? Were …

13 Ways to Help Them Last Longer in Bed

At every workshop I’ve taught over the last decade, someone has asked a version of this question:

What do I do if he comes too quickly?

It’s usually paired with other questions about helping their partner last longer and reaching …

How to Get Your Partner to Talk During Sex

Anonymous asks:

What are some ways to get your partner to talk to you during sex?

Hey Anonymous—

I don’t think you meant it like this, but the term “get” stuck out to me. We never want to “get” our …

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