Ask Kait: The Best Hands-Free Vibrators

Rachael asks,

I’m curious about the Eva II. I’ve read the reviews and they’re mixed about it staying in place, and I get very wet. What are your thoughts? Is there something similar that is a hands-free clitoral stimulator?

Lingerie for Every Body

Anonymous asks

Can you share a roundup of lingerie that won’t make me feel ridiculous?


I’m a big believer in adorning yourself in things that bring you pleasure. Lingerie is one way to do that, showing yourself love with …

A better approach to sexual wellness

In my decade as a sex educator, I’ve noticed there are two main ways people approach their sex issues: they either want a quick fix like a toy, tool, or technique OR they want to get to the root of …

5 Steamy Romances to Keep the Summer Heat Going

Romance novels are powerful tools.

Can they be formulaic, tropey, and unsurprising? Sure, but that’s what makes them so fun. Does the quality of writing vary? Yes, as with any genre. Does the genre persist, retaining a large chunk of …

PbK’s Favorite Sex Toys to Travel With

Summer is synonymous with travel—and that means vacation sex! Whether you’re getting it on solo, indulging your fantasies with your favorite partner(s), or seeking a summer fling, here are our favorite toys to satisfy your every desire.

The Basics

No …

11 Tips for Fighting Fairly with Your Partner

One of the most challenging relationship myths I’ve had to unlearn is that fighting is inherently bad for a relationship.

Growing up, I heard all about how my parents never fought before the divorce. It was a point of pride, …

Are you having enough sex?

There’s one thing every one of my clients and every potential client has in common: they think they aren’t having enough sex. Sometimes they tell me they’re having sex several times each week. Other times, that number drops to a …

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