A better approach to sexual wellness

In my decade as a sex educator, I’ve noticed there are two main ways people approach their sex issues: they either want a quick fix like a toy, tool, or technique OR they want to get to the root of …

5 Steamy Romances to Keep the Summer Heat Going

Romance novels are powerful tools.

Can they be formulaic, tropey, and unsurprising? Sure, but that’s what makes them so fun. Does the quality of writing vary? Yes, as with any genre. Does the genre persist, retaining a large chunk of …

PbK’s Favorite Sex Toys to Travel With

Summer is synonymous with travel—and that means vacation sex! Whether you’re getting it on solo, indulging your fantasies with your favorite partner(s), or seeking a summer fling, here are our favorite toys to satisfy your every desire.

The Basics

No …

11 Tips for Fighting Fairly with Your Partner

One of the most challenging relationship myths I’ve had to unlearn is that fighting is inherently bad for a relationship.

Growing up, I heard all about how my parents never fought before the divorce. It was a point of pride, …

Are you having enough sex?

There’s one thing every one of my clients and every potential client has in common: they think they aren’t having enough sex. Sometimes they tell me they’re having sex several times each week. Other times, that number drops to a …

How to Experience Simultaneous Orgasm

What is a simultaneous orgasm

At its most basic, a simultaneous orgasm is when you and your partner experience orgasm at the same time. In common use, it refers to this happening during penis-in-vagina intercourse (PIV).

Why is it such

#AskKait: Is sexual orientation fluid?

Mary asks:

Is it normal to enjoy hetero sex even if you feel like you might be more attracted to women?

Hey Mary!

I am so glad you asked this question! I hear this conflation of sexual behaviors and sexual …

The Only 3 Things You Need for Mind Blowing Sex

When it comes to having better sex, most of the advice tells you to add new, sexy, fun things to your routine. Variety indeed keeps things exciting, and also it’s not long before your routine expands to include that something …

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