This post was originally published May 2014. Text and images have been updated.
Massage is the perfect sex act. It helps you create the right context, set the mood, connect with your beau, and get turned on. Plus, …
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Fall Rituals to Feel Sexier
“Put your own mask on first.” “You can’t pour from an empty cup.” These days, adages about self-care abound. And for good reason: a recent survey found that “chronic stress is a national epidemic for all genders and ages, particularly …
Essential Oils for Sexual Arousal Recipes
When it comes to essential oils for sexual arousal, you have lots of options. Most websites highlight floral oils like Ylang Ylang, Rose, and Jasmine. There’s nothing wrong with those if you and your beau enjoy such …
S-Factor Didn’t Make Me Feel Sexy & That’s Important
About six months ago, I attended my first S-Factor class. This “sensuous workout for body & soul” involves pole dancing, floor work, and a lot of gyrating in a softly-lit room of ther women. The goal? Opening “the female body …
So Long Sweet Summer: 3 Tips to Get Your Sexy on This Fall
Is it just me or does this time of year always feels bittersweet? The sultriness of summer fades and it’s time to have a sexy fall!
Summer is about lounging outside, hiking, beach trips, ice cream, and lazy Sundays cuddling …
Try This for a Sexy Date Night In
You know it’s easy to get too comfortable with each other in a long-term relationship. Enter: the regular date night. Whether you stay in or go out, prioritizing each other on a regular basis helps keep your connection strong. Plus, …
Sexless Relationship? Spice Things Up with 10 Ideas Under $100
Part of the reason I adore living in NYC is the abundance of products + services that add ease to my life. Everything here is at your fingertips: the subway runs frequently, you can get a taxi, Uber, Lyft, etc …
Simple Ways to Add More Pleasure to Your Life
When it comes to sex, most people have one major question:
Will it feel good?
You might ask things like will this toy make sex better? Will asking permission “ruin the moment”? Will my sweetie lose his erection when we …
Pleasure in Chronic Pain: Simple Mindfulness Techniques for Better Sex
Do you ever find yourself distracted during sexy time? Maybe you’re in the moment, totally enjoying yourself when suddenly you start thinking about your to-do list. This is something almost everyone struggles with. Taking time for sex, pleasure, and self-care …