It’s been a while since I’ve done a favorites round-up. As I was reading through my past posts, what struck me was how each provides a snapshot of my life and our world at the time I wrote it. These …
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2016 in Review – Kait’s Favorite Things of 2016
It’s that time of year when we look simultaneously backwards and forwards. Reflecting on the year that passed and planning for (and worrying about *coughTrumpcough*) the year ahead. I love the peace that settles over the world between Christmas …
Random Sexy Goodness: All About Getting Aroused
“I struggle with getting aroused. The sex is great when we have it but I never want to have it. I really want to want it!”
Does this sound familiar? Working with people in LTR, I hear questions about getting …
My Favorite Moments with You This Year
At the beginning of every year, I choose to a word to guide me. In 2015, that word was focus. You see, 2014 left me exhausted, burnt out, and overwhelmed by what to do next. I remember chatting with my …
Random Sexy Goodness 7: Masturbation myths, missionary position tips, & more.
Regardless of what holiday(s) you celebrate, this time of year is stressful. Whether it’s travel, family, or the never ending office treats that’s got you down, by the end of this most wonderful time of year, you’re exhausted.
So whether …
Random Sexy Goodness: Female orgasm, feminist porn, & more.
Have you ever noticed that when women come together, we’re unstoppable?
When we set aside the cattiness and competition that the Real Housewives, Bachelor, and society puts on us, we’re lift each other up and set each other …
Random Sexy Goodness: Summer Sex Edition
The warm temps are here and you might be feeling a little friskier than normal.
As temps heat up, so does your libido.
Spring fever, or that boost of energy and desire you feel, is a real thing. As the …
Random Sexy Goodness 4: 50 Shades of Grey, Embracing Your Inner Vixen + More
I like to think of Valentine’s Day as an excuse to make date night a priority. You may think that after eight-plus years in a long-distance relationship I would cherish the day. Instead, its more important that the beau and …
Explorations in Ethical Non-Monogamy: A (Vanilla) Review of ‘My Life on the Swingset’
Several weeks ago I was invited to review Cooper Beckett’s first book, My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. If you aren’t familiar with Cooper, he’s the the co-creater of the Life on the Swingset blog and …