By now we all know that the last two years have put us through the ringer. Even if you’re one of the lucky ones whose career and relationships are thriving, for whom the pandemic was the main thing that …
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Why Sex and Desire in Movies are Unrealistic—and How to Have More of Both
This article on why sex and desire in movies is unrealistic originally appeared on Blood + Milk.
Scene 1:
Music swells. The camera pans around in a circle. And, shortly after our main characters’ lips (finally!) meet, the scene fades …
Want Better Sex? Slow the Eff Down & Savor Foreplay
As I stepped onto the elevator, a male voice asked, “Do you have a puppy in that bag?!” “No” I replied, “Sex toys. I just taught a foreplay workshop for a bachelorette party!” His response: “Foreplay – what’s that?”
He and …
Male Sexual Desire is More Complex than You Think
This article on male sexual desire originally appeared on Blood + Milk.
Jokes abound about the relative simplicity of cis men’s sex drives. How many of us have heard some version of, “Men are like microwaves while women are like …
AskKait: How to Increase Your Libido When You’re Too Tired
A previous version of this article on how to increase libido when you’re too tired appeared in Blood + Milk.
Kelly* asks:
How do you build libido when you’re too tired in your day-to-day?
You’re right to connect your tiredness …
Wondering How to Have Better Sex? You Only Need These Three Things
When it comes to having more intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex, most of the advice tells you to add new, sexy, fun things to your routine. Variety indeed keeps things exciting, but it doesn’t take long before you get comfortable…
13 Fun Sex Ideas for Couples that You Can Try Tonight
If you’ve been with your partner(s) for any length of time, you know how easy it is to get stuck in a rut sexually. It can be hard to think up or have the motivation to try new things. …
How to Give a Rim Job: Safety, Techniques, Tips, & More
Pop culture depictions of sex are notoriously inaccurate. From rom coms to 50 Shades, they create unrealistic expectations about how sex happens. The upside? These scenes get people talking. This is certainly true for the cringeworthy analingus scene …
11 Common Causes for Low Libido—and How to Fix Them
One of the most common sex problems i having low libido and, subsequently, not having enough sex. Popular advice to solve this issue is simply add new things. Don’t get us wrong—we love sex toys! And, we understand …