As I stepped onto the elevator, a male voice asked, “Do you have a puppy in that bag?!” “No” I replied, “Sex toys. I just taught a foreplay workshop for a bachelorette party!” His response: “Foreplay – what’s that?”
He and …
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10 Benefits of Masturbation
Masturbation, self-pleasure, self-love, solo sex—whatever you call it!—often gets a bad rep. You may think of it as less important, feel embarrassed, or hide that you do it. After all, if you have an amazing relationship you shouldn’t need to masturbate, right?! (Wrong.) It’s …
From Breast Health to Breast Play: The care, keeping, and pleasuring of boobs
Were you obsessed with The Care and Keeping of You as a kid? Think of this series as an updated, adult version, specifically focused on breast health, play, and pleasure!
You already learned all about your cervix. In honor …
How to Get What You Want in Bed (OMGyes Review)
This post on how to get what you want in bed and OMGYes review was originally published September 2016. Text and images have been updated.
Kelly* asks-
What’s a good way to demonstrate pressure sensitivity to a partner?
I love …
How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work
My partner and I were in a long distance relationship from the time we met at 16 until we moved in together, 8.5 years later. The distance ranged from a 45-minute drive in high school to being on different continents. …
Finding freedom in pleasure with Plan B One-Step
This post is sponsored by Plan B One-Step® and SheKnows Media.
In August 2017, I took my last birth control pill after 13 years of being on it. It was a moment years in the making. I worked with …
On Being a “Good Girl” and Having A Girl Boner + a Giveaway!
I’m lying on the living room floor, rereading my favorite fantasy novel. In the opening scene, the hero and heroine do lots of kissing—and more. I feel a heaviness in my lower belly…and below. My whole body tingles with alertness.…
How to Have Good Sex
A previous version of this article Blood + Milk. This article has been updated with current information.
There are a lot of articles purporting they have the secret for how to have good sex. Usually it’s some position or toy …
Can I Become Addicted to My Vibrator?
Have you wondered, “Can I become addicted to my vibrator?” If so, you aren’t alone! I get this question all the time and today I’m gonna put the kabosh on it in a major way. The short answer: