You feel comfortable talking to your partner(s) about a lot of things. Finances, work stress, family drama, big feels—you name it. But when it comes to talking about sex? You feel embarrassed and don’t know where to start.
CategoryTips & Techniques
12 Things to Turn You On
This post about things to turn you on was originally published March 2018. Text and images have been updated.
If you think back to be the best sex you’ve ever had, it probably involved emotional and mental preparation that started …
The Secret to Finding the G-Spot
How can you direct your partner to get to your g-spot?
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Finding the g-spot can be a source of both great pleasure and disappointment. Everyone wants to find it, hoping it’s the magic key to full body, earth-shattering, mind-blowing …
How to Have Better Sex This Year
Transitions of any kind—whether it’s the start of a year or the start of a job—are a great opportunity to reflect on where you’ve been, where you want to go, and what you need to do to get there. Unfortunately, …
How to Get What You Want in Bed (OMGyes Review)
This post on how to get what you want in bed and OMGYes review was originally published September 2016. Text and images have been updated.
Kelly* asks-
What’s a good way to demonstrate pressure sensitivity to a partner?
I love …
10 Erotic Massage Tips
This post was originally published May 2014. Text and images have been updated.
Massage is the perfect sex act. It helps you create the right context, set the mood, connect with your beau, and get turned on. Plus, …
How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work
My partner and I were in a long distance relationship from the time we met at 16 until we moved in together, 8.5 years later. The distance ranged from a 45-minute drive in high school to being on different continents. …
How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Awkward AF
Minouschka asks:
…I’m fairly new to the sex game because I’m a late bloomer. One [guy] that I made out with wanted to mutually mastutbate. I was fine with it because I wasn’t gonna have penetrative sex with him on
How to Give the Best Blow Job
When the beau and I started dating, I refused to go down on him. I thought it was gross and degrading, so I didn’t do it. Over a decade later, and Oral Pleasure for Penises is my most popular workshop…