Not too long ago, I met a friend for drinks at a swanky bar. The lights were warm and low, the seats plush, and the drinks, expensive. As our tongues loosened, my friend shared a sexy dream from the night …
CategoryTips & Techniques
How to Get in the Mood—11 Ways to Get Turned on Fast
When it comes to your sex life, you worry about things like how to get in the mood fast, having different sex drives, and not having time for sex. You know that you don’t want to end up in …
12 Things to Turn You On
This post about things to turn you on was originally published March 2018. Text and images have been updated.
If you think back to be the best sex you’ve ever had, it probably involved emotional and mental preparation that started …
The Secret to Finding the G-Spot
How can you direct your partner to get to your g-spot?
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Finding the g-spot can be a source of both great pleasure and disappointment. Everyone wants to find it, hoping it’s the magic key to full body, earth-shattering, mind-blowing …
How to Have Better Sex This Year
Transitions of any kind—whether it’s the start of a year or the start of a job—are a great opportunity to reflect on where you’ve been, where you want to go, and what you need to do to get there. Unfortunately, …
How to Get What You Want in Bed (OMGyes Review)
This post on how to get what you want in bed and OMGYes review was originally published September 2016. Text and images have been updated.
Kelly* asks-
What’s a good way to demonstrate pressure sensitivity to a partner?
I love …
10 Erotic Massage Tips
This post was originally published May 2014. Text and images have been updated.
Massage is the perfect sex act. It helps you create the right context, set the mood, connect with your beau, and get turned on. Plus, …
How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work
My partner and I were in a long distance relationship from the time we met at 16 until we moved in together, 8.5 years later. The distance ranged from a 45-minute drive in high school to being on different continents. …
How to Give the Best Blow Job
When the beau and I started dating, I refused to go down on him. I thought it was gross and degrading, so I didn’t do it. Over a decade later, and Oral Pleasure for Penises is my most popular workshop…