Random Sexy Goodness 4: 50 Shades of Grey, Embracing Your Inner Vixen + More

I like to think of Valentine’s Day as an excuse to make date night a priority. You may think that after eight-plus years in a long-distance relationship I would cherish the day. Instead, its more important that the beau and I make time each week for each other. If, like this year, that happens to fall on a “special” holiday – great! If its just another Friday or Tuesday or Sunday, we make it equally amazing.

Underlying message: spend time together no matter what.

That being said, I adore any reason to celebrate! I decided to share the love in a different way this year. You get fun and empowering tips on things like BDSM, lingerie, and self-care, the fabulous women behind these articles receive some extra lovin’ . Everyone wins!

The PbK Favorites List 4.0

50 Shades of Grey made BDSM mainstream but didn’t teach you how to incorporate into your sexy time. Learn how.

Kimmay wants you to embrace your inner vixen.

Sarah Jenks really doesn’t want you to work out. Try this instead.

Tonya Leigh shares 10 Ways to Add Glamor to an Ordinary Day.

Oh Joy Sex Toy reminds you that 50 Shades isn’t sex education but can be fun to read nonetheless. (NSFW)

There’s lots of vibes on the market but these eight have you covered for just about any situation.

Target is Launching a Plus-Size Line the Might be Fantastic.

These made-for-men but packaged-for-women condoms might just revolutionize how you think about safe sex.

Treat yourself to the 50 Shades of Grey soundtrack. From Beyonce to Sia to Sinatra, its sultry and sexy and the perfect music for getting in the mood, getting it on, or practicing your burlesque/strip tease/dancing skills.

Happy Valentine’s Day pleasure seeker! Here’s to orgasms, intimacy, and #freedominpleasure.

Your Partner in Passion,

Kait xo