2019 Holiday Sex Gifts Guide: Pleasure Edition

It’s that most wonderful time of the year when we round up our fave products to make your holiday shopping easier and sexier than ever! These holiday sex gifts are great for people of all genders, sexualities, and relationship statuses and structures.

Scroll on to check out some of our favorite new and long-term sexy gifts for couples, singles, and everyone in between. What they all have in common? They help you break free and find #freedominpleasure—whatever that looks like in your bedroom!

Our Favorite Holiday Sex Gifts of 2019

As always, we’ve made it easy for you to shop—just click on the name of the holiday sex gifts to get yours.


$49 (lifetime access)

This incredible tool helps you explore new ways to increase pleasure. Through touchable video, research, and personal stories, you learn and practice new ways to pleasure that you didn’t know existed. And it works: 89% of users report more pleasurable sex and 82%, more orgasms.

OMGYes Season 2 explores 13 new ways to increase pleasure during penetration with interviews + touchable video featuring real people—not actors—explaining and demonstrating how these techniques work for them and why they feel so good.

Click here to discover more and new types of pleasure


$85+ Save 10% with code KAIT

Y’all, after eight years we have a new go-to bullet vibrator! 🙌🏻 Elegant, discreet, and very easy-to-use, the Chrome Bullet has accessible one-touch controls at the bottom of its rounded frame. While being fully encased in a body-safe metal, this rechargeable mini vibrator comes with two removable textured silicone sleeves for added pleasure.

Powerful and mighty, this luxury sex toy offers 11 vibration modes and 4 speeds. It’s also waterproof and USB rechargeable. Choose from the regular or the grand (we prefer the extra length and power in the grand).

Click here to meet your new fave vibe
Le Wand Chrome Bullet in Rose Gold | Holiday Sex Gifts Guide - Sexy Gifts for Couples & Singles | Passion by Kait
Unbound Palma ring vibrator | Holiday Sex Gifts Guide - Sexy Gifts for Couples & Singles | Passion by Kait

Unbound Palma

$128 Save 15% with code PASSIONBYKAIT

The ultimate piece of statement jewelry, Palma is a multi-speed, waterproof vibrator ring. This fashion-forward wearable features three speeds and two customizable modes that allow you to control the variation in vibration with your own hand movements.

Click here to get handsy with Palma.

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle


A sequel of sorts to Come as Your Are aka the sex bible, Burnout is “here to help end the cycle of feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. Instead of asking us to ignore the very real obstacles and societal pressures that stand between women, well-being, and pleasure, sisters Emily Nagoski, PhD, and Amelia Nagoski, DMA explain with compassion and optimism what we’re up against—and show us how to fight back.

With the help of eye-opening science, prescriptive advice, and helpful worksheets and exercises, all women will find something transformative in these pages—and will be empowered to create positive change. Emily and Amelia aren’t here to preach the broad platitudes of expensive self-care or insist that we strive for the impossible goal of ‘having it all.’ Instead, they tell us that we are enough, just as we are—and that wellness, true wellness, is within our reach.”

Click here to start healing your burnout and embracing your pleasure.

B-Vibe Snug Plug

$45+ Save 10% with code KAIT

This comfy, weighted butt plug has soft ridges that hit all the right spots internally. Its weight gives you a sensual and satisfying feeling of fullness. With a rounded tip, unique torpedo shape, and flexible neck, the Snug Plug is deigned for discreet extended wear. Try it during partner sex or enjoyed anytime. Plus, with four different sizes to choose from, there’s a Snug Plug for every booty.

Choose from the Original Snug Plug or the Vibrating Snug Plug. We ❤️ the vibrating plug because it combines the feeling of fullness, pressure, and weight with vibration for amazing pleasure and more options to play.

Click here to get snug.
Turquoise B-Vibe Snug Plug butt plug | Holiday Sex Gifts Guide - Sexy Gifts for Couples & Singles | Passion by Kait
The Maudern Kit featuring a vibrator, lube, condoms, and bath salts | Holiday Sex Gifts Guide - Sexy Gifts for Couples & Singles | Passion by Kait

The Maudern Kit


We’re obsessed with every single Maude product and couldn’t decide on just one! Thankfully, they put together the maudern kit featuring all of our faves.

A fully-stocked kit made for hibernation, the maudern kit includes their best selling vibe personal massager, a bottle of organic shine lubricant, a pack of rise easy-open, ultra-thin lubricated latex condoms, hand-harvested soak bath salts, and their creamy coconut milk bath blend. We literally edited out “our fave” and “our beloved” for each of those products—they’re seriously the best.

Click here to hibernate in pleasure.



The 2019 holiday box is packed with everything you to stay warm this winter including a luxe vibe that does everything except make hot chocolate. Featuring the Blush Novelties Lush Iris Vibrator, warming lube, nipple nibblers edible balm, and surprise holiday romance book pairings, this special, limited edition box isn’t to be missed.

Click here to warm up with your next one-handed read


$129 Save 10% with code KAIT

Moxie is a wearable, Bluetooth controlled external vibrator that lets you take the fun, rumbly vibrations with you wherever you go. Plus, no one will know because it’s so discreet!

Moxie is designed to be worn under your clothes so that you can take powerful, quiet vibrations anywhere when you want a little more excitement and pleasure. This luxury vibrator is held in place by a slip-proof magnet. It rests against the clitoris and vulva when you’re lying, sitting, standing, or walking. Use the wireless remote control or the free We-Connect app to let you and our partner play from anywhere int he world.

Click here to start playing in public
We-Vibe Moxie Wearable Vibrator and We-Connect App | Holiday Sex Gifts Guide - Sexy Gifts for Couples & Singles | Passion by Kait
Dame Slip 'n Vibe Kit featuring lube and a bullet vibrator | Holiday Sex Gifts Guide - Sexy Gifts for Couples & Singles | Passion by Kait

Dame Slip ‘n Vibe

$86 $5 from every purchase supports sex education

These basics aren’t “basic” at all! Zee is a rechargeable bullet vibrator offering three speeds in a travel-friendly package. Alu is an aloe-based lubricant that gives you the glide you need to enjoy yourself, with a handy lube koozie Grip to boot. It all comes together in our organizer pouch, to keep these essentials close at hand, at home or across the globe.

Click here to slip into something pleasurable
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