#askKait: How to Direct Your Partner to Your G-Spot

Jenny* asks:

How can you direct your partner to get to your g-spot?

I love this question, Jenny, because the answer incorporates sexual skills, great communication, and creating the right context. Plus, you can use these steps to direct your partner to almost anything—or try out a new desire.

The most important thing is to have fun! Sex is supposed to be about pleasure, intimacy, and connection, not stress. Use these steps to guide your partner to bring you to g-spot bliss.

Find it on your own first.

You can’t lead someone somewhere if you don’t know where you’re going. That’s wandering (which is so fun and I recommend it…but it’s not what you’re asking). If you haven’t found your g-spot yet, start there! Learn how far into your vagina it is, how much pressure it likes, what type of stimulation it enjoys, etc.

Get the rest of the steps on Blood + Milk

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