Orgasm Resources

Thank you for attending my All About Orgasm/Orgasm 101 workshop!

Below is a huge list of my top sex toys, books, and resources to help you have—and keep having—your best orgasms.

Many of the links are my affiliate links, which means I get a little 💰 if your purchase through that link. Like love, it doesn’t cost a thing, and I only recommend products I genuinely enjoy and have gotten great results with in my own sex life or with my clients.

Want even more, including personalized suggestions? Click here. 

A recap of the workshop

Including clips and top takeaways: All About Orgasm recap


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Njoy Pure Wand — great for g-spot stimulation as well as releasing tension in the vagina

Silicone lube — amazing for P in V sex. Enhances sensation so you feel every stroke, lick, sensation more and makes it easier to experience orgasm. Scent- and taste-less, condom-safe, and doesn’t need to be

Fin finger vibe — turns your beau’s hands into a vibrator! Use it to stimulate the clitoris – the easiest way for people with vulvas to experience orgasm in P in V.

Touch external vibe — discreet external toy that easily fits between your bodies in all sorts of positions. Use it on your clit or any other body part you want some extra stimulation.

Uma g-spot vibrator — perfectly curved to stimulate your g-spot OR extend you or your beau’s arm so your clit can be stimulated in positions like doggie style

Mio vibrating penis ring — turns a penis or dildo into a vibrator! Position it so that the vibrator stimulates the clitoris. Also helps people with penises last longer since experiencing orgasm during P in V can take time!

Bootie butt plug— great beginner’s butt plug. Wear it to feel fuller during other sexy time or to prep for bigger anal penetration. Pull it out right at orgasm for extra fireworks!

Sync rabbit vibe — wearable vibe that stimulates the g-spot and clitoris at the same time. Can be used during P in V to really get that stimulation you want and need.

Looking for another toy? Check out my favorite toys or browse all the toys.


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Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski  — the bible for female arousal, desire, and orgasm. The orgasm meditation we did is inspired by some of the exercises in this book.


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Erotic Films




Additional Reading

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4 Reasons to Read Romance Novels

Arousal Non-Concordance
Even more on arousal, desire, and the science behind sex: Come As You Are

How to Get in the Mood – Fast

Not in the Mood? Have More Satisfying Sex with These 3 Steps

Shy About Sex? Here’s Your 4-Step Plan for Satisfaction

The Power of Appreciation (Hint: It’s Great Foreplay)

The Secret to Having More Desire


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5 Ways to Have a G-Spot Orgasm

The Secret To Finding Your G-Spot


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5 Breathing Exercises That Lead to Better Sex (Fatherly)

9 Questions to Ask Yourself for the Best Orgasm

Can Women Think Their Way to a Better Orgasm?

How Common is It for a Woman to Be Multi-Orgasmic?

How He Can Last Longer During Sex

How to Have—and Keep Having—a Vaginal Orgasm (Blood + Milk)

Is His Penis Too Big? Here are 7 Ways to Enjoy It

This is How to Orgasm During Sex

What Does and Orgasm Feel Like—Really?


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All About the Cervix


Coital Alignment Technique

Doggy Style

Sensation Play


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Top Sex Toys for Couples

Favorite External Vibrators

3 Easy Ways to Care for Your Luxury Sex Toys

#treatyoself to some new toys

Introducing the Limon: A Bullet Vibrator with a Twist

Introducing: the Mona Wave + How to Find and Stimulate Your G-Spot

Introducing: The We-Vibe Touch

The Best Vibrators for Women: The Rabbit



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