One of my heroes, Gretchen Rubin, praises the power of knowing yourself better. Doing so helps you build a life that supports your best qualities and helps you navigate your unique challenges The same can be true for your partnership—and that’s where relationship tests come in.
Relationship tests help you create an intimate, exciting, and fulfilling partnership that lasts.
They teach your about you and your partner(s)’s personalities, and how you interact. By understanding these personal and interpersonal factors, you can figure out what to say in any situation. How to support and love each other. How to initiate Big Scary Talks.
The sooner you take the tests, the better.
I don’t mean whip them out on the first date! A good time to suggest this activity is once you decide to pursue something more serious. The knowledge you gain from these tests helps you create an unshakeable foundation. And no sweat if you’ve been together awhile—it benefits you to periodically revisit these relationship tests and their results to discover new insights.
Is your partner giving you a hard time about taking these? Let them know it’s important to you to create the strongest and sexiest relationship you can—and that these tests are one part of that. It helps to mention benefits like deeper connection, better sex, and more ease.