Anonymous asks:
…Do you have any advice or resources to help me further combat my fatphobia in the context of a new relationship? I want to ‘get over’ the (most-subconscious) thoughts and feelings about my partner being a bit overweight
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A Love Letter to My Body (and Yours)
Dear Body-
I’m so sorry.
I didn’t listen. I ignored you. Berated you. Beat you up, literally at times. Beat you down.
You were too much:
too big, too jiggly, too broken.
You weren’t enough:
skinny enough, strong enough, fast …
Random Sexy Goodness 4: 50 Shades of Grey, Embracing Your Inner Vixen + More
I like to think of Valentine’s Day as an excuse to make date night a priority. You may think that after eight-plus years in a long-distance relationship I would cherish the day. Instead, its more important that the beau and …
From Body Image to Masturbation: Love Your Body Every Which Way
^That’s^ the title of the workshop I had the honor of leading not once but twice in the past week. Having struggled with this whole “self love” thing most of my life, its a topic that’s near and dear to …
Random Sexy Goodness – PbK Favorites, List 3
After three weeks of travelling, teaching, and learning, I’m back in my beloved NYC. And let me tell you – it feels fantastic! In honor of being in my favorite city, I’m sharing some of the best links I found …
Sex Gets Real: Sex and Chronic Illness
A few weeks ago I had the honor of chatting with Dawn and Dylan, the folks behind Sex Gets Real. We talked about all sorts of crazy sexy goodness like:
- sex and chronic illness
- lube
- passionate monogamy (aka how
Notes on Body Image 2.0: 3 More Reasons You are #Beautiful
As some of you may know, last week was National Eating Disorder Awareness Week (NEDAw). Stats for EDs are similar to those of sexual violence: look around a room of people and assume at least a few of them have, …
Notes on Body Image and Sex (aka you’re beautiful)
A major theme over the last few weeks has been body love. Between excessive New Year’s messaging about cleanses, shedding holiday weight, and totally overhauling your life,
The start of a new season (or in this case, a new …
Sick Day Musings – an Orgasm a Day
So some icky stomach bug decided to come knocking this week and left me feeling nauseous and weak and overall blech.
Since you all likely know by now how much I value self-care, I decided to take a bit of …