As I stepped onto the elevator, a male voice asked, “Do you have a puppy in that bag?!” “No” I replied, “Sex toys. I just taught a foreplay workshop for a bachelorette party!” His response: “Foreplay – what’s that?”
He and …
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How to Get in the Mood—11 Ways to Get Turned on Fast
When it comes to your sex life, you worry about things like how to get in the mood fast, having different sex drives, and not having time for sex. You know that you don’t want to end up in …
6 Ways Fantasizing During Sex Increase Your Pleasure
Not too long ago, I met a friend for drinks at a swanky bar. The lights were warm and low, the seats plush, and the drinks, expensive. As our tongues loosened, my friend shared a sexy dream from the night …
21 Intimate Ideas to Instantly Reconnect Emotionally with Your Partner
Affection is one of three key components to having an intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex life that lasts. But your beautifully full life doesn’t always leave you a ton of time for your sex life and relationship, no matter how …
12 Things to Turn You On
This post about things to turn you on was originally published March 2018. Text and images have been updated.
If you think back to be the best sex you’ve ever had, it probably involved emotional and mental preparation that started …
10 Erotic Massage Tips
This post was originally published May 2014. Text and images have been updated.
Massage is the perfect sex act. It helps you create the right context, set the mood, connect with your beau, and get turned on. Plus, …
Your Guide to Enjoying Sex Safely in Trump’s America
Heads up- this post contains more expletives than normal. If that shit offends you, maybe skip this one. xo
How do we ever have sex again?
A friend texted me this the day after the election. To me, it encapsulated …
Random Sexy Goodness: All About Getting Aroused
“I struggle with getting aroused. The sex is great when we have it but I never want to have it. I really want to want it!”
Does this sound familiar? Working with people in LTR, I hear questions about getting …
6 Reasons to Try Mutual Masturbation + How to Get Started
Mutual masturbation is one of the most common, sexy time activities I suggest to my intimacy coaching clients. Usually, they aren’t quite sure what I mean. And when I explain, the idea usually shocks them!