This article on how to give a rim job originally appeared on Blood + Milk.
Pop culture depictions of sex are notoriously inaccurate. From rom coms to 50 Shades, they create unrealistic expectations about how sex happens. …
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6 Ways Fantasizing During Sex Increase Your Pleasure
Not too long ago, I met a friend for drinks at a swanky bar. The lights were warm and low, the seats plush, and the drinks, expensive. As our tongues loosened, my friend shared a sexy dream from the night …
How to Get in the Mood—11 Ways to Get Turned on Fast
When it comes to your sex life, you worry about things like how to get in the mood fast, having different sex drives, and not having time for sex. You know that you don’t want to end up in …
The Secret to Finding the G-Spot
How can you direct your partner to get to your g-spot?
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Finding the g-spot can be a source of both great pleasure and disappointment. Everyone wants to find it, hoping it’s the magic key to full body, earth-shattering, mind-blowing …
How to Get What You Want in Bed (OMGyes Review)
This post on how to get what you want in bed and OMGYes review was originally published September 2016. Text and images have been updated.
Kelly* asks-
What’s a good way to demonstrate pressure sensitivity to a partner?
I love …
How to Give the Best Blow Job
When the beau and I started dating, I refused to go down on him. I thought it was gross and degrading, so I didn’t do it. Over a decade later, and Oral Pleasure for Penises is my most popular workshop…
#askKait: How to Increase Your Libido
Kelly* asks:
How do you build libido when you’re too tired in your day-to-day?
You’re right to connect your tiredness to low libido—most of what impacts sex has nothing to do with sex itself! In that vein, here’s a …
#askKait: How to Have Vaginal Orgasms
Ella* asks:
How do I have vaginal orgasms and how to keep getting them? Not clitoral.
In my near decade as a sex educator, this is one of the most common questions I hear from people with vulvas**. Some want …
How to Have Good Sex
There are a lot of articles purporting they have the secret for how to have good sex. Usually it’s some position or toy that promises instant arousal and mind-blowing orgasms.
This is not one of those articles.
In fact, if …