When it comes to having more intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex, most of the advice tells you to add new, sexy, fun things to your routine. Variety indeed keeps things exciting, but it doesn’t take long before you get comfortable…
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Pleasure in Chronic Pain: Simple Mindfulness Techniques for Better Sex
Do you ever find yourself distracted during sexy time? Maybe you’re in the moment, totally enjoying yourself when suddenly you start thinking about your to-do list. This is something almost everyone struggles with. Taking time for sex, pleasure, and self-care …
How to Fight Fairly In a Relationship: 11 Tips to Avoid Hurt Feelings
This article on how to fight fairly in a relationship, is an excerpt from The PbK Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, a 75-page workbook packed with the exact tools that have helped hundreds—and will help you—have more …
13 Relationship Agreements for More Pleasure
One of the most common tools I share with my counseling clients is the creation of relationship agreements. At their core, relationship agreements are your ways of being and interacting with someone you’re in a relationship with. Exactly what they …
21 Intimate Ideas to Instantly Reconnect Emotionally with Your Partner
Affection is one of three key components to having an intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex life that lasts. But your beautifully full life doesn’t always leave you a ton of time for your sex life and relationship, no matter how …
How to Have a Healthy Relationship: Show Appreciation
One of the best “side effects” of working as a sex and relationship educator is the regular opportunity to reflect on my relationship. As my clients share their sex and relationship struggles, I’m given the gift of looking at my own relationship …
Intimate Couple’s Massage Tips and Tools
Massage is the perfect sex act. It helps you create the right context, set the mood, connect with your beau, and get turned on. Plus, it makes experiencing orgasm easier by activating your parasympathetic (“rest and digest”) nervous …
How to Survive a Long Distance Relationship
My partner and I were in a long distance relationship from the time we met at 16 until we moved in together, 8.5 years later. The distance ranged from a 45-minute drive in high school to being on different continents. …
How to Introduce Sex Toys into Your Relationship
How do I introduce sex toys into my relationship? My partner is concerned they’ll replace him or “ruin” me!
This is, hands down, the most common question we get about sex toys.
Most objections are rooted in myths about …