This mutual masturbation guide originally appeared on Blood + Milk.
I discovered mutual masturbation early in my sex life. While watching my beau finish, I found myself getting turned on again, so I grabbed a toy and did the same.…
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10 Benefits of Masturbation
Masturbation, self-pleasure, self-love, solo sex—whatever you call it!—often gets a bad rep. You may think of it as less important, feel embarrassed, or hide that you do it. After all, if you have an amazing relationship you shouldn’t need to masturbate, right?! (Wrong.) It’s …
Secrets of Mindful Masturbation: How it can enhance your orgasm and make you a better lover
This post on mindful masturbation was originally published in May 2019 as part of Bawdy Bookworms’ Rub One Out Bingo. Text and images have been updated.
What started as my usual bedtime routine turned into one of my favorite …
6 Ways Fantasizing During Sex Increase Your Pleasure
Not too long ago, I met a friend for drinks at a swanky bar. The lights were warm and low, the seats plush, and the drinks, expensive. As our tongues loosened, my friend shared a sexy dream from the night …
Healing Myself with Mindful Masturbation
Like many people, I have a masturbation routine—the toys, positions, and settings I rely on to get me there, fast. Whether I’m enjoying a mid-day fap or lulling myself to sleep, self-pleasure is my favorite form of self-care.
Except—that routine …
Your Guide to Enjoying Sex Safely in Trump’s America
Heads up- this post contains more expletives than normal. If that shit offends you, maybe skip this one. xo
How do we ever have sex again?
A friend texted me this the day after the election. To me, it encapsulated …
6 Reasons to Try Mutual Masturbation + How to Get Started
Mutual masturbation is one of the most common, sexy time activities I suggest to my intimacy coaching clients. Usually, they aren’t quite sure what I mean. And when I explain, the idea usually shocks them!
Most people think masturbating
…Is His Penis Too Big? Here are Seven Ways to Deal With It
Most people (with penises) think that there’s no such thing as “penis too big.” A recently from a reader emailed me this about her well-endowed partner says otherwise:
…How do I better manage the fact that my partner has an
10 Ways to Make Sex Fun (Again)
Every couple of months or so, the beau or I realize that sex has gotten a bit…routine (boring even). Sometimes one of us comes right out and says it. Other times, we introduce a new idea a la, “Hey want …