Do you ever find yourself distracted during sexy time? Maybe you’re in the moment, totally enjoying yourself when suddenly you start thinking about your to-do list. This is something almost everyone struggles with. Taking time for sex, pleasure, and self-care …
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10 Erotic Massage Tips
This post was originally published May 2014. Text and images have been updated.
Massage is the perfect sex act. It helps you create the right context, set the mood, connect with your beau, and get turned on. Plus, …
This is How to Orgasm During Sex
This post on how to orgasm during sex is sponsored by the amazing We-Vibe. All opinions are my own.
One of the most common questions I hear from cis women is, “how do I orgasm during sex?” We’ve been …
The Science-Backed Key to Better Sex
You’ve been lied to.
So much of what you’re told will improve your sex life isn’t correct. It’s not completely wrong but it’s also not the whole truth. The key to better sex isn’t only a stronger vibrator, the right sex …
Simple Ways to Spice Up the Bedroom
First, thank you for your kind words on last week’s hella vulnerable post. I was terrified to get naked and ya’ll greeted it with such love, kindness, and appreciation. My gratitude is endless. 🙏🏻 Secondly, this week I’m so …
Is His Penis Too Big? Here are Seven Ways to Deal With It
Most people (with penises) think that there’s no such thing as “penis too big.” A recently from a reader emailed me this about her well-endowed partner says otherwise:
…How do I better manage the fact that my partner has an
Try This for a Sexy Date Night In
You know it’s easy to get too comfortable with each other in a long-term relationship. Enter: the regular date night. Whether you stay in or go out, prioritizing each other on a regular basis helps keep your connection strong. Plus, …
Dry During Sex? Here’s Why & What to Do About It
Most of the time, you love sex. You love the kissing and the foreplay and the penetration and everything in between.
But sometimes, even when you’re totally into it, your body doesn’t seem to get the message. You just aren’t …
Struggling with Different Sex Drives in Your Relationship? Read This
Three things are guaranteed in life:
- Death.
- Taxes.
- Sex drive differences.
Sound a bit dramatic right? Its pretty darn true though.. At some point in your relationship one of you is going to want it more than the other. Maybe …