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5 Steps to Simple Summer Self Care
Self care seems to be everywhere lately. There’s all this buzz about how fab it is for you and how exactly to go about doing it. The slower but more energizing pace of summer is the perfect time to practice …
How to Get in the Mood—11 Ways to Get Turned on Fast
When it comes to your sex life, you worry about things like how to get in the mood fast, having different sex drives, and not having time for sex. You know that you don’t want to end up in …
Pleasure in Chronic Pain: Simple Mindfulness Techniques for Better Sex
Do you ever find yourself distracted during sexy time? Maybe you’re in the moment, totally enjoying yourself when suddenly you start thinking about your to-do list. This is something almost everyone struggles with. Taking time for sex, pleasure, and self-care …
10 Benefits of Masturbation
Masturbation, self-pleasure, self-love, solo sex—whatever you call it!—often gets a bad rep. You may think of it as less important, feel embarrassed, or hide that you do it. After all, if you have an amazing relationship you shouldn’t need to masturbate, right?! (Wrong.) It’s …
The 12 most common sex issues in a relationship—and one universal solution
This article on 12 common sex issues in a relationship, is an excerpt from The PbK Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, a 75-page workbook packed with the exact tools that have helped hundreds—and will help you—have more …
How to Fight Fairly In a Relationship: 11 Tips to Avoid Hurt Feelings
This article on how to fight fairly in a relationship, is an excerpt from The PbK Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, a 75-page workbook packed with the exact tools that have helped hundreds—and will help you—have more …
21 Intimate Ideas to Instantly Reconnect Emotionally with Your Partner
Affection is one of three key components to having an intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex life that lasts. But your beautifully full life doesn’t always leave you a ton of time for your sex life and relationship, no matter how …
Stress Ruining Your Relationship? 4 Ways to Ground Yourself
This article on stress ruining your relationship was originally published in 2013.
The last month has been an absolute whirlwind! Between exciting work projects, the holidays, and travelling, I feel totally drained. My creative energy, gone. Rather, folded into …