Virtual Sex Toy Parties & Workshops

Passion by Kait workshops are a sophisticated, upscale alternative to your typical sex toy party. They’re a great way to dip your toe into adult sex ed without the commitment, cost, or intimacy of one-on-one sessions. You leave with the knowledge, skills, & tools to create a more intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex life.

Want to get a few of your boo’d up friends together to learn some new blowjob techniques? Got a friend with a big birthday who’s never even tried a vibrator? Glad your friend finally kicked the jerk to the curb and want to celebrate their new independence? Looking for a sophisticated sexy alternative to a stripper to celebrate your bestie’s upcoming nuptials? Want to send them off with everything they need for the best honeymoon ever?

Our virtual sex workshops are great for birthday parties, bachelorette parties, divorce parties, and friends’ nights in.

It was the perfect bachelorette activity!
We booked a workshop with Passion by Kait for a bachelorette party. No one knew what to expect, but [our hostess] was so knowledgeable and prepared! Everyone had the best time and couldn’t stop talking about it the next day. I would 100% recommend it to anyone looking to learn a ton and have lots of fun!

Raia, New York, NY

We start with an interactive session on the topic of your choice.

Think: foreplay, orgasm, or oral sex.

You and your guests learn interesting new ideas you’ll actually look forward to trying – not  the redundant crap you can read in any Cosmo article. Then there’s Q&A where I answer all your individual sex and relationship questions. You also have the chance to buy tools, ranging from essential oils to sex toys, in the privacy of a workshop setting. You get the guidance you need to find the best toy for you without the risk of seeing your neighbor or co-worker – unless you invited them, of course!

By the end, you’ll have the exact actions, ideas, and products to enhance your individual sex lives.

Passion by Kait virtual sex workshops are fun, highly interactive, and designed for a range of comfort levels so that every woman present, from the most confident to the shyest, leaves with the information they need, the sex toys they want, the tips and tricks they can’t WAIT to try – and an awesome story to tell!

Kait is the only person that I considered working with to host something like this!

She was super organized and friendly. Her rockstar quality was how she presented the information. Her matter-of-fact, straightforward talk about topics that can be uncomfortable for some made opening up to share so much easier!

The workshop opened up genuine conversations amongst our group that continued even after Kait left, which was pretty amazing to experience—especially with many of us not being ‘close’ friends. 

Kait’s workshop was the perfect way to spend the evening of the bachelorette party. It would also be super fun to host one of them with my close girlfriends!

Sarah W.

How it Works

  • Workshops run 90 minutes to 2 hours.
  • Q&A’s are woven in throughout the workshop with dedicated time at the end.
  • Before we wrap up, you can shop the toys; schedule your complimentary counseling session; and take home the specific sex tips we’ve tailored for you to try out!

All Workshops Include:

Brave Space to Open Up

You and your guests will never feel pressured or uncomfortable. In fact, you’ll have a blast and leave feeling really enlightened, empowered, and excited–plus continue talking about it the next day, week, and beyond.

Customized Session

No two sex lives or relationships are the same, so the advice you get shouldn’t be one-size-fits-all either.

PbK workshops emphasize creating a sex life that works for each guest, regardless of the shoulds. Each workshop is customized for your group. These events are your space to open up, ask questions, cry, celebrate, rant, discover new desires, and make a plan so you feel empowered and know exactly what to do when we part ways.

Answers to all your questions

About bodies, foreplay, and women’s sexuality in general. With a decade of experience under her belt, there’s no question that PbK hasn’t heard—just try!

Pleasure Tools

PbK’s experiential workshops give you not just the information but also the practices and tools to have a more intimate, exciting, and satisfying sex life. The support doesn’t stop the night of the workshop either! After the party you receive a personalized list of recommended resources to continue your journey to finding freedom in pleasure.

Complimentary Private Counseling Session

During the second half of the workshop, each guest has a chance to meet with their certified sexual health and wellness hostess one-on-one to ask her any lingering questions and order goodies.

Assistance Planning Your Event

Need a space to host the workshop? Curious about where you should go for dinner, dancing, or strippers? Need party supplies? PbK offers event planning expertise to make your job as easy as possible.  

Bridal or Birthday Fund

Hosting a birthday or bachelorette party? Help you and your guests save money by contributing to a gift fund! Simply choose any amount and PbK will present it during the workshop as part of the celebration!

Hostess + Guest of Honor Gifts

Passion by Kait workshops can’t happen without our hosts and guests of honor. We love thanking you with sexy + soulful gifts.


What an amazing fun evening we had with Kait!

My friends and I loved how warm, cool, and knowledgeable she was and how she fit in just like one of the girls. Except she was the one schooling us and answering all our questions about our bodies, foreplay, and sexuality in general. Thank you Kait for a great evening…oh and of course the toys we all got in the end!

Kizzy., Long Island, NY

Kait really helped take my party up a notch!

I had never hosted or attended a workshop (or anything of the kind) before and wasn’t sure what to expect. Kait impressed me from the very first email interaction. She is thorough, respectful, patient, knowledgeable, honest, down-to-earth, flexible and fun. My guests and I never felt pressured or uncomfortable. In fact, we had a blast and feel really enlightened, empowered, and excited post-bachelorette. I would definitely recommend Kait and the products she endorses.

Juliana, C., New York, NY

We came away from the night feeling enlightened & more confident about our sex lives.

I had participated in the typical ‘sex toy parties’ in college, but was looking for a more sophisticated, educational experience to celebrate my birthday. Kait did an amazing job answering ALL of our questions and providing a session that was both informative and enjoyable. We were all laughing and feeling comfortable with the topics. The Q&A was a great way to open up, and Kait recommended not just the products, but actions and ideas for enhancing our individual sex lives. I would recommend Kait to any group of women looking to have an absolute blast while learning from an extremely professional, intelligent, and warm woman. Thanks again for making my birthday party unforgettable!

Kat L, Stamford, CT

Workshop Descriptions

Busting Out! Sexual Myth Busting with Passion by Kait!

Join me for an inclusive, interactive event designed to separate fact from fiction! Topics will include the most common myths that sex educators hear—including on sex toys, foreplay, arousal, and orgasms—and will draw from questions straight from the audience. You’ll leave confident in your ability to lead your own informed, empowered sex lives, express your desires, and help yourself – and your partners – find #freedominpleasure.

full body foreplay

Foreplay is so much more than the turn on before you get it on. It gets you in the mood, makes sex feel more amazing, and is a must-have for most women. Discover new ways to enjoy full-body foreplay and engage your most important sex organ – your brain. From massage to dirty talk, you’ll explore the why’s and how’s of arousal and how to fan that spark into a flame!

Get Your Sexy On Again: Passionate Monogamy in Long-Term Relationships

The longer you’re with your partner, the easier it is to fall into a rut. You want to mix things up, but most advice requires advanced acrobatics training or focuses on your partner’s pleasure. No more! In this workshop, learn the tips, tools, and positions to keep your sex life exciting for years to come.

All About Orgasm

As seen on Fusion TV’s Sex Right Now with Cleo Stiller

Orgasm. We all want one – or more! – but how do we get it? And what is an orgasm anyway? In this interactive workshop, you’ll explore “The Big O” and how to make it happen – better, stronger and more often.  You’ll discover different types of orgasms, learn how to overcome orgasmic challenges, and get answers to everything you ever wanted to know about arousal, pleasure, and climax.

Intro to Sex Toys

You know that adult toys make sex more fun & pleasurable. But where do you begin?! Is the rabbit all that great? And what’s this about toxic toys? Say goodbye to feeling overwhelmed or disappointed. In this workshop, we bust sex toy myths, get up close and personal with different types of toys, and help you find the perfect toy for you.

From Body Image to Masturbation: Love Yourself Every Which Way

These days we’re constantly told to “love ourselves,” and for good reason: doing so helps you experience more intimacy and pleasure. Yet self-love and appreciation is easier said than done. In this workshop we explore different forms of self-love and how to enhance each so you can experience more pleasure every day.

Creating Resilient Relationships

What is a resilient relationship? What does it look like? How does it benefit you – and your partner? In this workshop you’ll learn how to build and maintain relationships that truly stand the test of time – without feeling overwhelmed. From asking for what you really want to setting and maintaining boundaries to dealing with the let-downs that are an inevitable part of life – learn everything you need so your happily-ever-after can last forever.

More Praise…

Words cannot express…just do it and see!Kait is amazing. She made the party fun, educational and engaging. I would do this again and again not only for bachelorette parties but even for women bonding events. Fabulous fabulous experience.

Pam B, New York, NY

Each workshop is better than the last!
Kait is amazing! I have had the pleasure of attending two of her workshops recently, and each one is better than the last. She fits right in with any group, she is knowledgeable , enthusiastic and communicative in her presentation and is confident with the products she sells. I look forward to many more workshops to come!

Ashlie B., New York, NY

Ready for Your Virtual Sex Workshop?

Step 1
Click here to fill out the workshop inquiry form so we can learn about your event and make sure PbK is available.

Step 2
Watch your email. PbK will be in touch within two days to discuss next steps. If everything seems like a good fit, we’ll book a quick, no-obligation workshop planning call to talk about your plans for the event, what you want from the workshop, and decide which workshop is right for your group. We’ll make sure we get along before you commit, and you’ll have a chance to ask all of your questions.

Step 3
After checking in with yourself and the other attendees, if it’s a HELL YES, we’ll book it! I’ll walk you through the exact steps to get your workshop scheduled and then it’s party time!


Is there nudity in your workshops?


How about sex?

Our workshops are experiential but hands-off…though we do hope you go home and practice!

How much do workshops cost?

Cost depends on the size of your group. See our schedule of fees below.

Number of Attendees     Workshop Fee
up to 10$500

For groups over 20 and events, please click here to inquire about pricing.

Looking for a private session?

Click here to learn about counseling

Do you travel?

Virtually, of course! We happily zoom into wherever you are.

Still have questions? Contact us

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