Find Freedom in Pleasure
Passion by Kait and our founder Kait Scalisi travel across the country to appear on panels and podcasts, speak to students, teach classes on freecom in pleasure, and hold events and lectures. Passion By Kait also regularly hosts a Coffee, Kegels, and Conversation gathering in our home city of New York. We are dedicated to creating safe, welcoming, engaging spaces where participants learn, share, and above all, have fun. For a schedule of upcoming appearances, click below.
Passion by Kait designs and hosts fun, informative sex workshops on every topic from foreplay to blow job techniques to sex toys to how to ask for - and get - what you want in the bedroom. This isn't your typical sex toy party! Our workshops open up genuine conversations that last long after the event is over, allowing women to make new friends or become even closer to people they’ve known for a lifetime. Our guests leave feeling excited, empowered, comfortable, and confident.
A group setting isn’t always the ideal way to ignite or re-ignite your passion, particularly for those in long-term monogamous relationships. Passion by Kait offers one-on-one, personalized sex and couple's counseling sessions on a case-by-case basis. Whether you feel your desires are misaligned, you’re stuck in a rut, or you simply want your sex to be as passionate, satisfying, and beautiful as the rest of the life you love, our counseling will be exclusively focused on your needs, challenges, and growth.
Can I Use Silicone Lube with Silicone Sex Toys?
When I first began selling sex toys over a decade ago, I learned that you can’t use silicone lube with silicone sex toys because it will ruin the toy. What a conundrum this creates! Silicone is one of the safest sex toy materials and silicone lube feels slippery rather than wet, and stays slick so much longer! As someone who doesn’t…
Ask Kait: The Best Hands-Free Vibrators
Rachael asks, I’m curious about the Eva II. I’ve read the reviews and they’re mixed about it staying in place, and I get very wet. What are your thoughts? Is there something similar that is a hands-free clitoral stimulator? Rachael— I went directly to my friends at Dame for their perspective. Because Eva II is such a unique toy,…
Lingerie for Every Body
Anonymous asks Can you share a roundup of lingerie that won’t make me feel ridiculous? Anonymous— I’m a big believer in adorning yourself in things that bring you pleasure. Lingerie is one way to do that, showing yourself love with your undergarments and maybe gifting your partner(s) a show, too. While that’s great in theory, finding lingerie…