Find Freedom in Pleasure
Passion by Kait and our founder Kait Scalisi travel across the country to appear on panels and podcasts, speak to students, teach classes on freecom in pleasure, and hold events and lectures. Passion By Kait also regularly hosts a Coffee, Kegels, and Conversation gathering in our home city of New York. We are dedicated to creating safe, welcoming, engaging spaces where participants learn, share, and above all, have fun. For a schedule of upcoming appearances, click below.
Passion by Kait designs and hosts fun, informative sex workshops on every topic from foreplay to blow job techniques to sex toys to how to ask for - and get - what you want in the bedroom. This isn't your typical sex toy party! Our workshops open up genuine conversations that last long after the event is over, allowing women to make new friends or become even closer to people they’ve known for a lifetime. Our guests leave feeling excited, empowered, comfortable, and confident.
A group setting isn’t always the ideal way to ignite or re-ignite your passion, particularly for those in long-term monogamous relationships. Passion by Kait offers one-on-one, personalized sex and couple's counseling sessions on a case-by-case basis. Whether you feel your desires are misaligned, you’re stuck in a rut, or you simply want your sex to be as passionate, satisfying, and beautiful as the rest of the life you love, our counseling will be exclusively focused on your needs, challenges, and growth.
AskKait: Why was sex better when I was single?
Anonymous asks: “Now that I’m in a committed relationship with the man of my dreams, why isn’t the sex as good as when I was single? The marriage bed should be better than a truck-bed fling.” Anonymous– I totally hear you! From a very young age, we’re sold the story that finding our One True…
Struggling with desire changes in quarantine? You aren’t alone.
Ahh, quarantine. By now we’ve all been staying at home for…a while. Let’s just leave the counting to the mathematicians. Much has already been written about how these aren’t normal times. You aren’t *really* working from home, you’re trying to be productive in the midst of a pandemic that’s changing the face of the economy, of healthcare,…
#AskKait: Does behavior or attraction define sexual orientation?
This article on what defines sexual orientation originally appeared on Blood + Milk Mary asks: Is it normal to enjoy hetero sex even if you feel like you might be more attracted to women? Hey Mary! I am so glad you asked this question! I hear this conflation of sexual behaviors and sexual attraction from…