This article on free sensual self care practices originally appeared on Blood + Milk.
Self-care is more than bubble baths and face masks. Though we love those options, self-care is also a way to reckon with and heal ourselves and …
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7 Reasons to Prioritize Your Pleasure
This article on why experiencing pleasure is revolutionary originally appeared on Blood + Milk.
“Pleasure might be too scary of a sell,” the marketing consultant told me. We were seeing an influx of curiosity around menstruation, reproductive health and …
Distracted? 15 Ways to Stay Present During Sex
This article on staying present during sex originally appeared on Blood + Milk.
By now we all know that the last two years have put us through the ringer. Even if you’re one of the lucky ones whose career …
The 2021 PbK Sexy Holiday Gift Guide (Mostly) under $100
Holiday season is the perfect time to shop for fun, sexy gifts. To bring you more pleasure, connection, and intimacy this holiday season, we’ve put together a holiday gift guide featuring PbK Founder, Kait Scalisi’s favorite pleasure products of 2021 …
Read This If You’re Happy Not To Do Holiday Gatherings This Year
This article on what to do if you need an out for holiday season originally appeared on Blood + Milk.
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I was in …
Why Sex and Desire in Movies are Unrealistic—and How to Have More of Both
This article on why sex and desire in movies is unrealistic originally appeared on Blood + Milk.
Scene 1:
Music swells. The camera pans around in a circle. And, shortly after our main characters’ lips (finally!) meet, the scene fades …
Want Better Sex? Slow the Eff Down & Savor Foreplay
As I stepped onto the elevator, a male voice asked, “Do you have a puppy in that bag?!” “No” I replied, “Sex toys. I just taught a foreplay workshop for a bachelorette party!” His response: “Foreplay – what’s that?”
He and …
Male Sexual Desire is More Complex than You Think
This article on male sexual desire originally appeared on Blood + Milk.
Jokes abound about the relative simplicity of cis men’s sex drives. How many of us have heard some version of, “Men are like microwaves while women are like …
Is Birth Control to Blame for My Low Sex Drive? Kait’s Story.
Disclaimer: this is Kait’s personal experience with sex drive and birth control, specifically the combination Pill. Every body is different. We support all forms of birth control and believe you know your body best—you do you! Kait is not a …