Named one of Kinkly’s “Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes,” Passion by Kait shares practical, evidence-based, and social justice-informed insight + tools for creating a more intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex life—without feeling awkward, twisting yourself into a pretzel, or spending hours a day on intimacy-building activities.
Passion by Kait is a one-stop portal for all your questions about sex, intimacy, and pleasure, from tuning in to what you want, to discovering the best sex toys for you, to navigating whatever holds you back from your desires. Here you’ll find the intersectional, sex-positive support you’ve been looking for: without having to ask your BFF or worry about feeling embarrassed or judged.
We are driven by our commitment to #freedominpleasure—the belief that pleasure is your birthright, that it’s drastically undervalued in our society, and that when we allow ourselves to experience and prioritize pleasure in one area of our lives, it opens up our ability to experience pleasure in other areas more freely as well.
Our Founder, NYC Sex Coach Kait Scalisi
Kait Scalisi, MPH (she/her) is an advocate for the revolutionary power of pleasure—in the bedroom and out. Through Passion By Kait, she blends her science education, social justice insight, and radical empathy to empower folx to get in tune with their bodies, discover what brings them pleasure, and integrate that knowledge into their lives and relationships.
A certified sex coach and educator with a background in neuroscience and public health, Kait creates spaces digitally and IRL that help people understand and say YES to their desires while ditching the shame, inadequacy, and expectations of an often sex-negative world. With her experiences living and loving as a person with chronic illness, she provides her clients a unique and fully realized perspective on what it really takes to keep the spark alive or fan it into a flame—no matter what life throws their way.
Kait’s fun + practical wisdom has been featured in top media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Teen Vogue, Redbook, Women’s Health, Shape, Elle, Livestrong, Health, and more, and she’s the sex and intimacy columnist for Blood + Milk. She’s also a sought-after public speaker, having brought her unique blend of science and woo to esteemed institutions including Stanford University, Yale School of Public Health, and Johns Hopkins Medical Institute, among others.
Kait has a BS in Neuroscience from Stonehill College and a Master’s of Public Health from Johns Hopkins University. She currently lives in NYC with her partner of over 10 years, their rescue pup, and her collections of herbal teas, dark chocolate, and romance novels.
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